When I say that, I mean that I hate feeling like someone is doing something for me just because they feel obligated to.
If someone’s going to do something for me, then I want it to be because they honestly want to help me out, or want to see me happy, or just felt like being nice.
It’s sad wondering how many people wouldn’t do anything at all for me if it wasn’t for them feeling obligated.
And sometimes you can feel the difference. Like the person who only talks to you when you talk to them first, or someone who made plans a long time ago but doesn’t want to follow through on them anymore.
I wish people would just be straight up.